There is a conversation happening in relationship spaces right now that I cannot let slide. It shows up in my DMs, it shows up in the communities I'm part of, and I hear about it constantly from the people I coach.
It goes something like this: a man...
Earth Day only comes once a year. But for those of us who identify as eco-sexual — or who are simply becoming more conscious about what we put on, in, and around our bodies — every day is an opportunity to live that connection more fully....
Here is something nobody prepares you for when you first open your relationship:
The agreements you made at the start will stop fitting.
Not because someone did something wrong. Not because either partner broke the rules. Not because ENM does not wor...
You already know what you want. That is not your problem.
Your problem is the conversation. The one you have been rehearsing in your head for weeks. The one where you tell your partner that monogamy might not be the only structure that works fo...
Let's talk about what you're actually putting inside your body.
I spent years as a holistic aromatherapist before building Organic Loven, and if there's one thing that training drilled into me, it's this: what touches your body matters. Your skin is...
Let me ask you something — when's the last time you felt truly sexy outside of the bedroom?
Not during sex. Not while getting yourself off (though yes, please keep doing that). I mean during the regular, mundane, Tuesday-afternoon parts of your...
If you've been eyeing a Liberator sex pillow but can't decide between the Jaz and the Wedge, you're not alone. These two are consistently our best-selling products at Organic Loven — and also the most frequently abandoned in shopping carts. The...
If you’re a Black woman, man, or non-binary person who’s even whispered to yourself:
“Monogamy doesn’t feel like the whole story for me… but I don’t know what to do with that…”
…you are...
When people imagine Ethical Non-Monogamy, they often assume it only benefits the partner who is “open.”But that’s a narrow and incomplete view.
In reality, many monogamous partners experience profound benefits when they are in a mon...
