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Coaching with Taylor Sparks:
Ethical Non-Monogamy with Confidence and Clarity
Real Talk. Real Tools. Real Results for Ethically Non-Monogamous Relationships.
You already know something needs to change. You just need someone who actually gets it — and knows how to help you move through it.
I'm Taylor K. Sparks, Ethical Non-Monogamy Coach, Holistic Sexual Wellness Educator, and Founder of OrganicLoven.com. I work with individuals, couples, and throuples who are navigating open relationships, swinging, polyamory, and every structure in between — with honesty, emotional maturity, and tools that actually work in real relationships.
You are not alone in this. And you are not broken.
But something is not working — and you know it.
One of you wants open. One of you is not sure. You are deep in the lifestyle but still arguing about the same boundaries. You are managing jealousy, silence, emotional shutdowns, and conversations that go nowhere. You have done the late-night talks, the YouTube rabbit holes, the anonymous Reddit threads, the "we'll figure it out" phase.
And now you are here.
This is not therapy. This is direct, judgment-free coaching that helps you understand what you actually want, how to say it clearly, and how to decide what your relationship can honestly hold — whether you are just opening up or years into the lifestyle and still hitting walls.
Clients have found this work through the OrganicLoven YouTube Channel and booked within 48 hours. If you want to get a feel for how I think and coach before you reach out, start there.
Start Here: Book Your Free 20-Minute Clarity Call
Before you invest in anything, let's talk.
Your Clarity Call is your first real step — a focused 20-minute conversation where you get a genuine sense of how I work, and I get a clear picture of where you are and what you need. You will leave with real insight and real options, whether you continue working with me or not.
To hold your spot, a $25 fully refundable deposit is required at booking. Show up for your call and it is returned to you — simple as that. This keeps our time protected and makes sure we are both showing up ready.
No pressure. No pitch. Just clarity.
Book Your 20-Minute Clarity Call — $25 Refundable Deposit to Reserve Your Spot
Book Your Free Clarity Call
90-Minute ENM Breakthrough Session
Sometimes one conversation changes everything.
This is a single, focused, high-impact session designed to cut through the noise and get you moving. Whether you are navigating a difficult conversation, hitting a wall in your relationship structure, or just need clarity on your next step — this session is built to deliver real answers, not homework for later.
We go deep, fast. No fluff. No filler.
What Is Included:
- Your personalized DISC Personality Profile
- Custom InterACTION Guide for couples and throuples — so you understand exactly how your communication styles are working for or against you
- Full session recording for your reference
- Follow-up recap and recommended next steps
- 15% discount toward the 6-Session ENM Navigation Coaching Program if you upgrade within 5 days
This session is for you if:
- You feel stuck and want forward motion now
- You and your partner(s) are struggling to communicate needs or negotiate boundaries
- You are ready to invest in real growth — not just manage the chaos
Investment: $497
Book Your 90-Min Breakthrough Session
6-Session ENM Navigation Coaching Program
You're not confused about what you want. You're just navigating it without a map — and probably without anyone in your life who truly gets it.
This program is for individuals, couples, and throuples who are serious about making ethical non-monogamy work — whether you're swinging, opening up, exploring polyamory, or somewhere defining your own path. Six sessions. Real tools. No judgment. No guesswork.
Not sure if this is for you? Watch real conversations about ENM on the OrganicLoven YouTube Channel before you book. Clients have discovered this program through YouTube and booked within 48 hours.
What You Walk Away With:
- (6) 90-minute private coaching sessions
- DISC Personality + InterACTION Report for each participant — so you finally understand why you communicate the way you do
- ENM Conversation Starter Guidebook (PDF) — structured prompts to use between sessions
- Say It Like You Mean It Card Deck — your ongoing tool for difficult conversations after the program ends
- An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy Workbook — a culturally grounded resource available to all clients, built around radical honesty, emotional awareness, and authentic communication
- Midpoint email check-ins + accountability support between sessions
- 15% off OrganicLoven.com products for six months
Investment: $3,800 Payment plans available.
This is not a course. This is not a workshop. This is private, personalized coaching built around your relationship — your structure, your goals, your pace.
Clarity first. Commitment second.
Ready to get started? You can book directly below or begin with a free 20-minute Clarity Call if you'd like to talk it through first.
Book Your Free 20-Minute Clarity Call →Here
You Can Read Every Book. Watch Every Video. And Still Not Have the Conversation That Changes Everything.
Within my 25-year marriage — 12 years ethically monogamous, 13 years ethically non-monogamous — I have been married, divorced, liberated, and deeply loved. I have lived open, poly, swinging, and kinky. I have been personally and professionally immersed in ENM spaces for more than 16 years. I have coached hundreds of individuals, couples, and throuples through the hardest, most honest chapters of their relationship evolution.
And here is what I know after all of it:
You do not need to be fixed. You need to be seen. You do not need to throw away your relationship. You need tools to rebuild it with who you actually are right now. You do not need to keep navigating this alone.
If you are ready to move — emotionally, relationally, sexually, spiritually — let's work together.
Still figuring out where you stand? Take the free ENM Quiz and start your journey with real clarity.
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Why Work With Taylor K. Sparks?
Because most ENM coaches have read the books. I have lived the life — and built a career helping others navigate theirs.
- 25-year marriage: 12 years ethically monogamous, 13 years ethically non-monogamous
- 16+ years of lived and professional experience in ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, polyamory, and swinging
- Certified Human Behavior Specialist and Holistic Aromatherapist with 20+ years of practice
- 10+ years as a corporate trainer specializing in communication, conflict resolution, leadership, and critical thinking
- Coaching that is results-driven, judgment-free, and built around your specific relationship structure
- Featured in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Glamour, Men's Health, Women's Health, Bustle, BuzzFeed, Condé Nast Traveler, Shape, and more
Hundreds of clients have moved from confusion, jealousy, and disconnection to clarity, confidence, and relationships that actually work — using tools they still use long after our sessions end.
Group Coaching
You do not have to figure out ENM alone — and you do not have to pay private coaching rates to get real support.
My group coaching sessions are a grounded, intimate space for individuals and couples in ethical non-monogamy who are ready to do the work alongside others who actually get it. No judgment. No performance. Just honest conversation and real tools.
In these small live groups we work through the challenges that come up most in ENM — navigating jealousy without shutting down or blowing up, setting boundaries that both partners actually respect, building the communication skills that keep you honest, connected, and genuinely turned on in your relationship.
If you are ready for structure, support, and community with people who are living this too, explore my current and upcoming group coaching offers below. If you’re ready for support, structure, and community, you can learn more about my current and upcoming group offers here.
Your Questions. Answered Honestly.
What makes this coaching different from therapy or other ENM coaches?
This is not therapy and it is not surface-level support. This is strategic, straight-talking, mindset-shifting coaching rooted in 25 years of personal and professional experience in both ethical monogamy and non-monogamy. I do not coach what I have read. I coach what I have lived — and the tools you get in even one session go further than most people expect. Most ENM coaches cannot say that.
What actually happens in the 90-Minute Breakthrough Session?
You get laser-focused clarity on where you are, where you are stuck, and what needs to shift — fast. You walk away with practical next steps, real communication upgrades, and a deeper understanding of how ENM can actually work for your specific relationship. Every session includes your DISC Personality Report and, for couples and throuples, a custom InterACTION Guide.
Who is ENM coaching for?
Individuals, couples, and throuples navigating open relationships, polyamory, swinging, or any ENM structure — whether you are brand new to non-monogamy or years in and still hitting the same walls. If you are feeling stuck, reactive, unclear, or just exhausted from going in circles, this work is for you. If you are looking for someone to tell you what you want to hear, I am not your coach.
Why does the Breakthrough Session cost $497?
Because real transformation requires real investment. One session has saved relationships, restored peace of mind, and ended years of confusion for clients who thought they had tried everything. You are not paying for an hour of conversation. You are paying for expertise, structure, tools, and the kind of clarity that actually changes how you show up in your relationships.
What if I need more than one session?
If you choose to continue into the 6-Session ENM Navigation Coaching Program after your Breakthrough Session, you receive 15% off when you enroll within 5 days. Many clients use the Breakthrough Session as their starting point and move directly into the full program from there.
Still not sure if this is the right fit?
That is exactly what the Clarity Call is for. Book your free 20-minute call and let's find out together.
Book Your 20-Minute Clarity Call — $25 Refundable Deposit to Reserve Your Spot →HERE
You Are Not Meant to Do This Alone.
And you do not have to keep learning the hard way.
Whether you are just starting to explore ethical non-monogamy or you are deep in the lifestyle and need someone who truly understands the terrain — this is where you get real support, real tools, and a real plan.
Let's talk. Let's get clear. Let's build something that actually works for your life.
Book Your 20-Minute Clarity Call — $25 Refundable Deposit to Reserve Your Spot →HERE
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My expertise in ethical non-monogamy and sexual wellness has been recognized by leading publications, including:
✔ Bustle
✔ BuzzFeed
✔ Conde Nast Traveler
✔ Cosmopolitan
✔ Glamour
✔ Married 2 Medicine
✔ Men’s Health
✔ Oprah Magazine
✔ Shape
✔ Women’s Health, and more
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