Ethical Non-Monogamy Coach,
Sexual Wellness Educator,
Sex Goddess,
Taylor K. Sparks

Ethical Non-Monogamy Coach · Sexual Wellness Educator · Sex Goddess · Author · Founder

About Taylor

Taylor K. Sparks — also known as Mariposa — is an Ethical Non-Monogamy Coach, Sexual Health and Wellness Educator, author, and the founder of OrganicLoven.com. With 17+ years of lived ENM experience (including 13 years of ethical non-monogamy within a 25-year marriage) and 10+ years of professional coaching experience, Taylor brings a rare combination of authenticity, cultural depth, and professional rigor to her work with individuals, couples, throuples, and quads.

Certified in both Human Behavior and Holistic Aromatherapy, she is the author of An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy and the companion Workbook — resources that have been recognized by Decolonizing Love as among the top 6 books in the ENM space. She also created the Say It Like You Mean It conversation card deck, the ENM Conversation Starter Guidebook, the Vetting with Intention Guide, the free ENM Quiz, and — most recently — the Ethical Non-Monogamy Companion Coaching App with Taylor K. Sparks, the first AI companion built specifically for the ENM community.

Taylor's expertise has been cited in over 300 media articles including Bustle, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Married to Medicine (Bravo TV), Men's Health, Oprah Daily, Shape, Women's Health, and more. She co-hosted the podcast Sisters of Sexuality: Five Shades of Play for six seasons, accumulating over 100,000 downloads before going on hiatus.

She lives by the mantra: "Give as much love as you want to receive. Love boldly, deeply, naturally, organically, and purely."

However Your Love Looks — There's a Resource for That

Whether you're just beginning to explore ethical non-monogamy, navigating a transition between relationship styles, or ready to go deeper with a partner — there's a next step here for you. Taylor's resources are designed to meet you exactly where you are, with forward-looking guidance grounded in 17+ years of lived and professional experience.

Start Here

ENM Quiz (free) — find out where you are on your ENM journey → organicloven.com/quiz

Go Deeper

An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy — the foundational book, for all readers — $24.99
An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy Workbook — exercises and tools for navigating ENM through radical honesty, emotional awareness, and authentic communication — $34.99
ENM Conversation Starter Guidebook — 48 deep questions across 8 categories, fillable PDF — $19
Say It Like You Mean It — 50 conversation card deck (digital) — $12.99
Vetting with Intention Guide — know who to let in and how — $16.99

Talk It Through

Ethical Non-Monogamy Companion with Taylor K. Sparks — the first AI companion built specifically for the ENM community. Private, confidential, available 24/7 in 10 languages. It's not a chatbot — it's Taylor's knowledge and frameworks, available any hour. First 5 conversations free, then $17/month → advisor.organicloven.com

Work With Taylor Directly

When you're ready for personalized support, one-on-one coaching is available at every level — from a single strategy session to an immersive multi-week program. Taylor tailors her coaching to help you explore your motivations, develop communication strategies, navigate jealousy and boundaries, and design relationships that reflect your authentic values and desires.

Book coaching → organicloven.com/coaching

Relationship Styles Taylor Works With

Taylor coaches across the full spectrum of ethical non-monogamy, including:

Open relationships
Swinging / The Lifestyle
Polyamory — including hierarchical polyamory, non-hierarchical polyamory, kitchen table polyamory, and parallel polyamory
Solo polyamory
Relationship anarchy
Monogamish arrangements
Transitions between relationship styles (e.g., swinging into polyamory, or polyamory into open relationships)
Couples, throuples, quads, and pods at any stage

Speaking Engagements

Taylor is an engaging speaker, panelist, and keynote presenter known for her bold, empowering voice in sexual wellness, relationships, and open love. She participates as a speaker only — not a booth vendor — at conferences, seminars, and community events. Her most requested topics include:

Holistic Sexual Health and Wellness
Organic Intimate Body Products and Ingredient Safety
Ethical Non-Monogamy — styles, transitions, and building your foundation
Emotional Management, Communication, and Jealousy
Cultivating an Open Mindset in Love and Life
Vetting with Intention — how to choose the right people for your ENM journey
Spanking for Lovers

Casting & Television

Available as a subject matter expert for TV series, podcast appearances, and educational media. Taylor brings charisma and deep knowledge to one-time features or ongoing segments.

Entrepreneur's Elevator Pitch — Entrepreneur Media / Sprint Business — Secured a $100,000 investment offer from a panel of investors while pitching the OrganicLoven subscription box concept on the nationally televised series. Watch on YouTube →

View recent appearances on YouTube

Press & Media Contributions

Taylor has contributed expert insight to over 300 features on sexual health, relationships, sex-positive living, body-safe toys, and ethical non-monogamy. Selected highlights:

Cosmopolitan — 12 Sex Positions for Clitoral Stimulation
Married to Medicine / Bravo TV — Couples Retreat
Oprah Daily — How to Ask for What You Want Sexually
Condé Nast Traveler — 13 Sex Toys So Discreet You Can Take Them Anywhere
BuzzFeed — 14 Sex Tech Founders Who Are Changing The Way The World Thinks About Sex
The Body — Comprehensive Sex Education Could Curb Everyone's Trauma Around Sex
Girl Talk HQ — Sex Educator Taylor Sparks On Founding One Of The Largest BIPOC-Owned Sex Toy Retail Companies In The U.S.
Decolonizing Love — An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy named among top 7 ENM books

Full press page → organicloven.com/press

Professional Background

Taylor's professional foundation is as rigorous as her coaching philosophy. With 10+ years in corporate training, she brings expert facilitation skills in communication, conflict resolution, negotiation, and management and leadership. She has trained business teams nationwide, specializing in DISC personality assessment tools for improved interpersonal dynamics — the same tools she now uses with coaching clients navigating complex relationship systems.

A Founder Forged in Certified Excellence

Before OrganicLoven, Taylor built Morning Indigo's Skin Care for Athletes into one of the most credentialed organic personal care brands in the country. As a Certified Holistic Aromatherapist, she personally formulated 16 organic products for elite athletes — earning a remarkable collection of third-party validations few brands in any industry can claim:

Certified B Corporation — one of only four in North Carolina at time of certification, among the first 160 B Corps globally across 31 industries
Leaping Bunny Certified
PETA CaringConsumer Certified
Compact for Safe Cosmetics Signer
Campaign for Safe Cosmetics "Champion" Recognition
GoodGuide "Excellent" Rating — Top 10% of All Personal Care Categories

The brand sponsored US Olympic athletes at the 2008 Beijing Olympics, the 2010 Vancouver Winter Olympics, and the 2012 London Olympics. Products were featured in the VIP Gift Bag Suite at the US Olympic Swimmers' Golden Goggle Awards and invited to the Women's Sports Awards Gifting Suite at the Waldorf Astoria. The brand also sponsored Leigh Steinberg's Super Bowl Celebration, appeared at the Lingerie Bowl, and expanded internationally with distribution in Singapore retailers.

Taylor appeared on MSNBC's Your Business Show, was featured in Muscle & Fitness Hers and Inside Triathlon, and was selected as a Top-Idea Maven by The Woman's Advantage from over 5,000 submissions — featured in the 2012 Woman's Advantage Shared Wisdom Calendar alongside influential women leaders across the US. In 2011 she launched the Giving Goddess Soap line to benefit Women's Shelters.

She also appeared on Entrepreneur's Elevator Pitch (Entrepreneur Media / Sprint Business), where she secured a $100,000 investment offer from a panel of investors for the OrganicLoven subscription box.

In 2012, Taylor channeled that same uncompromising commitment to ingredient safety, ethical formulation, and certified excellence into OrganicLoven.com — bringing every hard-won standard with her. Today OrganicLoven proudly carries B Corp Certified brands including Good Clean Love and Love Not War, holding its brand partners to the same rigorous standards its founder built her career on.

Work With Taylor

Ready to take your next step? Start with the free ENM Quiz, explore the resource library, try the companion app, or book a coaching session. There's a path here for wherever you are.

Take the free ENM Quiz → organicloven.com/quiz

Explore all resources → organicloven.com/tools-resources

Book coaching → organicloven.com/coaching

Try the ENM Companion App → advisor.organicloven.com