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Let me guess. You've had a conversation in your head a hundred times. Maybe it's the one where you tell your partner you're feeling jealous. Or the one where you finally say you want something differe …

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Most of what gets written about polyamory assumes one shape: a "primary" partner at the top, "secondary" partners underneath, decisions flowing downhill. That's "linear hierarchy"  ranked, usuall …

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Here's the timing problem nobody warns you about: the window where you're clear-headed enough to actually evaluate someone is short, and it closes fast. New Relationship Energy doesn't announce itself …

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"I need you to not text her anymore."That sounds like a boundary. It isn't. It's a border, and the difference between the two is the single most common thing I correct in coaching sessions.A boundary …

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You've heard this one. Maybe from a friend, maybe from your mother, maybe from the comment section under every article you've ever read about this. "Isn't that just cheating with extra steps?" No. And …

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If you've spent any time reading about non-monogamy, you've probably noticed the terms get thrown around like they're interchangeable. They're not. And getting them confused isn't just a vocabulary pr …

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