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Coaching with Taylor Sparks:
Ethical Non-Monogamy with Confidence and Clarity
Radically Honest Guidance for Ethically Non-Monogamous Relationships
I’m Taylor Sparks, an ethical non-monogamy coach who helps individuals, couples, and throuples navigate ENM with clarity, emotional maturity, and real-world tools. You already know something needs to change — you just don’t know where to start. Or maybe you’ve started...and now things are messy.
One of you wants open. One of you isn’t sure.
You’re in the lifestyle but still arguing about boundaries. You’re navigating jealousy, silence, shutdowns, and half-truths. You’ve done the late-night talks, the TikTok videos, anonymous questions in the Facebook grous, the “we’ll figure it out” phase.
And now you’re here.
So let’s get clear: this is not therapy. This is coaching that cuts through the confusion — helping you understand what you really want, how to express it, and how to decide what your relationship can truly hold.
Start Here: Book Your Free 20-Minute Clarity Call
Before you commit to anything, let’s talk. I offer a free 20-minute clarity call to help us both see if we’re a good fit. You’ll get a real-time sense of how I coach, and I’ll offer insights and options you can use — whether you work with me or not.
Book Your Free Clarity Call
90-Minute Ethical Non-Monogamy Breakthrough Session – $497
Sometimes all you need is one powerful session to unlock a major shift.
In this session, we go deep — fast. You’ll get clear on what’s driving your current relationship dynamics, how to communicate through tension or disconnect, and what your next step needs to be.
Every session includes:
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Your personalized DISC Personality Profile
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(For couples/throuples): A custom InterACTION Guide to decode communication styles
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Recording of the session for future reference
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A follow-up recap + recommended next steps
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15% off if you upgrade to the 6-Week Program within 5 days
This is for you if:
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You feel stuck but want forward motion now
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You and your partner(s) are struggling to communicate needs or negotiate boundaries
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You’re ready to invest in growth, not just cope with chaos
Book Your 90-Min Breakthrough Session
6-Week ENM Clarity Coaching Program
Deep-dive coaching for individuals, couples, and throuples navigating open relationships, polyamory, swinging, and anything in between.
This structured program gives you space to unpack old patterns, process emotional blocks, and build new agreements — with real tools and a judgment-free guide beside you.
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(6) 60-minute weekly coaching sessions
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DISC Reports + InterACTION Report
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“Say It Like You Mean It” Card Deck (digital or physical)
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ENM Conversation Starter Guidebook (PDF)
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African-American Guide to ENM Workbook
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15% off Organic Loven products for the length of the program
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Bonus: Midpoint email check-ins + accountability support
Price: $3,800 (Payment plans available)
Apply now. Let’s talk. Clarity first. Commitment second.
Apply for the 6-Week Program → By Booking The Free Clarity Call
You Can Read All the Books. But That Won’t Change the Conversation You’re Not Having.
Within my 25 year marriage—12 of those years monogamous and 13 ethically non-monogamous. I’ve been married, divorced, liberated, and loved. Open, poly, swinging and kinky. I’ve been ethically non-monogamous for over a decade and personally and professionally in ENM spaces for more than 16 years. I’ve coached hundreds of couples and individuals through the hardest parts of their relationship evolution.
And what I know is this: you don’t need to be fixed — you need to be seen.
You don’t need to throw away your relationship — you need tools to rebuild it with who you are now. And you don’t need to navigate this alone.
Let’s work together if you’re ready to move — emotionally, relationally, sexually, spiritually.
Still curious?
Take the free ENM Quiz. Start your journey with clarity. Take the Quiz →
Why Work With Me?
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25-year marriage background: 12 years monogamous, 13 years ethically non-monogamous
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16+ years of lived and professional experience in ethical non-monogamy
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Certified in human behavior and holistic aromatherapy for more than 20 years
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Over 10 years as a corporate trainer focused on communication, conflict resolution, leadership, and critical thinking
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Results-driven coaching that helps individuals, couples, and throuples transition into or stabilize their ENM relationships
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Proven success helping clients move from confusion to clarity — with tools they can actually use in real life.
Group Coaching
Group Coaching with me is a grounded space for individuals and couples in ethical non-monogamy who are ready to do the work together instead of struggling in their own heads. In these small, live groups we focus on real-life challenges like navigating jealousy without blowups or shutdowns, setting and actually respecting boundaries, and building the communication skills you need to stay honest, connected, and turned on in ENM. If you’re ready for support, structure, and community, you can learn more about my current and upcoming group offers here.
Got Questions About Coaching?
Here’s what you really need to know before you book:
What makes this coaching different?
This isn’t therapy. This is strategic, straight-talking, mindset-shifting coaching rooted in 25+ years of personal and professional experience in both ethical monogamy and ethical non-monogamy (ENM). I don’t just coach what I’ve read — I coach what I’ve lived. And the tools you get? Most ENM coaches don’t even come close.
What happens in the 90-minute session?
You’ll get laser-focused clarity on where you are, where you’re stuck, and what needs to shift. You’ll walk away with practical next steps, communication upgrades, and a deeper understanding of how ENM can actually work for you. You’ll also get your DISC Personality Report and, if you're a couple or throuple, a custom InterACTION Guide.
Who is this for?
This coaching is for individuals, couples, or throuples navigating ENM — whether you're brand new or years in. If you're feeling stuck, unclear, reactive, or just tired of going in circles, I’ve got you. If you're looking for sugarcoated surface talk? I’m not your coach.
Why is it $497?
Because real transformation takes real investment. A single session can save your relationship, your peace of mind, or years of confusion. I’ve seen it happen again and again. You’re not just paying for time — you’re paying for expertise, structure, support, and tools that actually work.
What if I want more than one session?
Perfect. If after your 90-minute Breakthrough Session you choose to continue with my 6-Week ENM Clarity Program or the 2-Day VIP Intensive, you'll get 15% off your next coaching package if you enroll within 5 days.
Still wondering if this is right for you?
Book your Free 20-Minute Clarity Call and let’s see if working together is a fit.
Book Your Free Call→
Let’s Talk
You’re not meant to do this alone—and you don’t have to keep learning the hard way through trial and error. Let’s talk and explore how your ENM journey can be more joyful, confident, and deeply aligned.
Book Your Free Clarity Call Now
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My expertise in ethical non-monogamy and sexual wellness has been recognized by leading publications, including:
✔ Bustle
✔ BuzzFeed
✔ Conde Nast Traveler
✔ Cosmopolitan
✔ Glamour
✔ Married 2 Medicine
✔ Men’s Health
✔ Oprah Magazine
✔ Shape
✔ Women’s Health, and more
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