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Here's the timing problem nobody warns you about: the window where you're clear-headed enough to actually evaluate someone is short, and it closes fast. New Relationship Energy doesn't announce itself …

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You've heard this one. Maybe from a friend, maybe from your mother, maybe from the comment section under every article you've ever read about this. "Isn't that just cheating with extra steps?" No. And …

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DADT gets a bad reputation it doesn't fully deserve. People hear "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" and assume it means secrecy, avoidance, or a relationship built on not-knowing. It's none of those things when …

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Your no is a complete sentence.I want to say that first, before anything else, because most of what you're about to read online will not lead with that. It'll lead with what's wrong with him, or what' …

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If you've ever had the thought — even a passing one — "what would it be like if we weren't monogamous?" you've probably also had the next thought immediately after: does this mean somethin …

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Let me say something that might sting a little. Your partner didn't ruin your evening. Your coworker didn't make you shut down. Your ex didn't "make you" send that text at 1am. Something happened. You …

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